“Don’t be blue!” I say! And Francis too. Francis is this cute little guy I met at my neighborhood court. He let me borrow his toy ball which gave me the chance to pretend a little bit. I think I get props in this post for my ability to act like I’m playing ball. Due to hip complications, it’s all a pose!
Don’t be blue! That’s what I am mentally trying to do. Generally, I am a very happy person–I consider myself to be happy-go-lucky. Sure I experience stress, and I definitely wear my emotions on my sleeve, or so I’m told. Running a high school library, I have a very front facing job where I serve a close community all day long. I mingle amongst the students and talk to the adults passing through. Upon all appearances, and on this blog for that matter, I appear happy. Most all of us have an ability to present a happy face. But, what about when something brings us terribly down? Don’t be blue? Just like that? Sometimes it’s not so easy, but we have to try. Just recently I wrote about going with what works–a post that basically states all the things that make me happy.
Material items can only bring so much happiness. I can’t claim to have a solution for those times when I’m feeling down because of the chronic pain I am experiencing in my right hip continues. Even after my first surgery back in late August, it’s hard to be “happy” when I’m constantly in pain. My first hip doctor told me to “push through” the pain. While since then, I’ve received a second opinion because I can only handle so much pain, I am starting to find a different meaning for “pushing through.” There are a few things I need to do….
Pushing through might mean I need to continue to be my happy self. It’s my nature, so I must continue with this attitude I have toward life. Second, I need to find beauty, love, happiness, all the things that make life wonderful, and celebrate it. Take this cute little boy who was so determined to strike his own pose. He made me happy, so while the athletic shots in these pictures are fake, the smiles are most definitely not. Finally, something I have started to do recently to help me remain happy is rely on others. I’m fiercely independent, so it’s hard for me to ask for help or to share what’s really going on with me. Therefore I’ve started to reach out and seek support–take for example this very honest and rather exposing blog post. I don’t normally share anything this negative or personal here on Kremb de la Kremb. Wow. Feels good. I’m not usually this honest. But, I am pushing through. Don’t be blue. I’ve definitely got myself a new mantra.
Don’t Be Blue!
If you are daring enough to share, what have you done to get you through your blues? Do you have any wisdom to share with me as I work through pain management?
PS: The Outfit Details
For those who are interested I’ll tell you a little bit of what I’m wearing….
Wow…sorry about the hip issues! I’m not sure pushing through the pain is always the right way—I’m assuming you’ve tried some Eastern medicine methods? Attitude is key but it can only take you part way (IMO)
Love the scalloped edges on this skirt!!
jodie
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You’re right Jodie. My attitude can only take me so far. I will probably get a hip replacement some time in the next year. But first, I’m getting two more 2nd opinions in the States–one in Seattle and one in my hometown, Spokane. Plus, I should probably give the first operation at least a year, so I can make a decision after August 28th–that’s actually the day I had hoped to hike again….Oh well!
Anyway, Jodie, thanks for coming by and commenting. I can feel your support from afar, and I really appreciate it.
Love, Ann
I am sorry you are suffering. Pain is real. Acupuncture, chiropractic care and using silicone cups have helped me work through the neurological and muscular issues around my pain.
You do look cute and sporty here. The skirt makes me think of Betty Rubble in a very happy way!
Unfortunately, not much works for me….I’ve gotten a very high pain tolerance for sure! And my mind is awfully alert. In fact, during a recent procedure in the hospital, the doc said I woke up two minutes after the anesthesia he gave me–that usually puts people OUT! I have found this activity called TRE (Trauma and Tension Release Exercises); I do like the shake. It’s so interesting. Have you tried it? Funky but I like it.
Thanks for commenting Karen. I can feel your support and hope you are able to manage your pain as well. Love, Ann
I’m so sorry, my friend, I can’t begin to tell you how much. Pain is more than physical discomfort. As it inhibits, it debilitates and makes us feel inept. Not ourselves, and that’s a lot for anyone to handle. I think you’re quite right to seek more opinions before making that final decision. In the interim though, have you explored alternative methods to make life a little more comfortable? You have my number, you can talk to me anytime xoxo
Thank you Sheela. I can feel your love all the way over here. And I do use your number! In fact I think I’ll go check in right now!! Wink wink. Love, Annie